Happiness Card Deck Supplements

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FAQ's

Positive Psychology has six elements: positivity, engagement, relationships, meaning, achievement, and vitality. The research indicates that having a positive affect, being engaged in our work and play, developing strong relationships, cultivating a life of meaning and purpose, meeting goals, and having good health contributes to our wellbeing and satisfaction with life.

Dr. Martin Seligman, one of the modern-day founders of positive psychology defines positive psychology as “the scientific study of optimal human functioning. It aims to discover and promote the factors that allow individuals and communities to thrive.”

Unlike modern medicine and traditional psychotherapy, positive psychology is about building what’s right with you, not just fixing what’s wrong. 

Positivity is one of the elements of positive psychology, of thriving. And yes, positivity improves our wellbeing. But, positive psychology is NOT “happiology”. 

Happiness is simply one of the emotions expressed when a person experiences a positive affect. Likewise, positive psychology is not about pretending life is a bed of roses, rather, it’s about helping people build positive emotions while teaching them to work with their negative emotions. 

One of the key components of positive psychology is giving yourself the “permission to be human”, to experience the full range of human experiences and emotions while not repelling any of them. Negative emotions like anger, anxiety, sadness, guilt aren’t bad; they’re simply emotions. However, we become unhealthy when we stay stuck in our negative emotions (or avoid them). 

The good news? Positive psychology offers us tools and strategies to: (1) cope with life’s negative events, (2) enhance positive experiences, and (3) build the flexibility required to move through all of our human emotions. I’ve captured some of these strategies to create the card deck you purchased. But this card deck is just the tip of the iceberg. In fact, there are so many strategies that I’ve already begun creating an extension pack as well as a workbook because some strategies just can’t be distilled down to 8 lines on a card.:) 

The benefits of having a positive affect listed here will not surprise you but I hope reading these benefits emphasizes the impact that a positive affect can have on your success as well as the success of your organization.

* Stronger immunity

* Improved longevity.

* Increased community involvement.

* High quality romantic relationships.

* More friends and a stronger social support system.

* Enhanced ability to cope with stress and challenges.

* Decreased reports of pain, missed work, and suicide.

* Elevated creativity, curiosity, flexibility and originality.

* Receive more emotional and tangible assistance from coworkers and supervisors.

* Increased energy and involvement in social, recreational, occupational, and physical activities.

* Better income is significantly correlated to happiness and life satisfaction – even more so than education.

* More likely to secure job interviews, be evaluated more positively by supervisors, be more productive, show superior performance on the job and experience less burnout.

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Positive psychology aids us in moving north of neutral – being happIER, having more meaning in our life and being fulfilled.

No that isn’t a typo. The IER in happIER is intentional. You see, our happiness lies on a continuum. One end is depressive emotions while the other end of the continuum is joyful thriving.

I personally have the tendency to go towards the lower end of the continuum. And it’s sometimes difficult to think about pulling myself all the way up to happy.

But I learned tools, tips and strategies to increase my level of happiness – to be happIER in the present moment, even if it’s only a micro-movement forward.

And I say, any movement forward is to be celebrated. 

BONUSES

These bonuses are yours as a token of my gratitude to you for purchasing my Mind Your MOJO & Make Your Magic card deck. 

I hope these bonuses assist you in leveling up your journey toward thriving. 

PUT YOUR CARDS TO WORK ...

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

Choose a card and take action. Journal challenges and wins. Continue to grow and develop by choosing a new card as often as you wish.

MEETING ICE BREAKERS

The meeting chairperson selects a card. Members do a quick think, pair, share. At the next meeting, group members report their results, discuss their challenges and celebrate their wins, offering one another support to grow and develop.

CLASSROOM POSITIVITY

Ask a student to select a card. Students do a quick think, pair, share. Students then implement the strategy in their daily lives, report their challenges and celebrate their wins at the next class.

TEAM CHALLENGES

A group chooses a set number of cards and commits to implementing them over a set period of time. Be sure to set up an accountability mechanism to increase success. Plan a celebration when all members finish the challenge.

FAMILY CIRCLE

One child chooses a card. Each family member discusses how they would or currently do implement the strategy outlined on the card, discussing possible barriers they may encounter. The following week, each family member reports their challenges and celebrates their wins. Rinse and repeat with another card.

WOMEN'S OR MEN'S GROUP

Each group member chooses the same or different cards, implements the strategy. At the next meeting, group members report their results, discuss their challenges and celebrate their wins, offering one another support to grow and develop.

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Zhivotovskaya, Emiliya Owner of The Flourishing Center and Co-founder of the Certification in Applied Positive Psychology. https://theflourishingcenter.com/